All relationships have their ups and downs, smiles and frowns. Some can bounce back while others stay grounded or just deaded. Longevity is hard to attain in a relationship where the two people have lost that spark they had in the beginning. For some it can be that the love has gone or it can be caused by a variety of obstacles factors (money, stress, busy schedules, physical distance, boredom). At the end of the day some relationships are going to have an expiration date while some have that everlasting lifespan that I hear Twinkies have.
In some cases it can be that the sex has gone bad. Maybe one or both the partners are looking for more excitement in the bedroom. Or maybe...just maybe...somebody wants to f*ck more than one person. Is that normal? To want to have your cake, then go out and try some other cake? Depends on who you ask (WARNING: PLEASE DO NOT LET THAT PERSON BE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER WHEN YOU ALREADY KNOW THEIR ANSWER IS "F*CK NO YOU NASTY A$$ MUTHAF*CKA, I'M OUT THIS B*TCH!!!!!).
I saw on ESPN a minute ago that NBA player Andrei Kirilenko's wife gives him a pass when it comes to smashing a another chick. I don't know how often a pass this is or if there's any additional rules, but the fact that she's openly OK with him f*cking the vodka out of some basketball groupie is pretty amazing. I've seen the show Basketball Wives and those crazy b*tches are always looking for an excuse to throw their drink at somebody. I'm sure a couple of them would have a murder charge or two if their man thought they had that arrangement going on with them.
Letting your partner get a nut outside of the relationship doesn't seem to be a problem with swingers or with people who are in an official open relationship. Somehow or someway they figured out how to separate sex from their emotions or are just REALLY open minded. For a lot of us that is impossible because we were raised by people who were only in monogamous relationships or were pissed off when they found out their lover was creepin'.
Personally, I wouldn't want that option in my relationship. Pu$$y, even if you're only fucking it, comes with a lot of baggage. Even if I wanted a "Get Out of Jail F*ck Card" I would need a "Get Out of Death Row Card." Not to sound racist, but I don't see too many sistas out there letting their man have a license to f*ck whatever catches their attention. Most guys would get too carried away and either die from some sh*t they caught or from heavy bleeding cause their girl cut their sh*t off. I think I'll rather just focus on the problem(s) in the relationship than just going out and finding more.
What do you guys think? Would you like to have a "Get Out of Jail F*ck Card"? Do you think it's a bad idea?
Let's talk about it.
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