Double Standards: Male & Female

This guy slipping his fingers in any of these ladies' holes would have been on the news for 6 months straight

Dictionary.com's Definition: A set of principles establishing different provisions for one group than another; also, specifically, allowing men more sexual freedom than women.

Let's face it...we live in a male dominated society.  No matter how many Oprahs you see on the T.V., or many Madonnas breaking their hip at the Super Bowl, or Beyonces or any other type of female celebrity or leader...IT'S A MAN'S WORLD!!!!!  It is what it is.

Because of that fact, and that fact alone, public opinion will always be sway towards a masculine way of thinking.  When society is faced with a situation or event where both male and female can be the protagonist the male gender more often than not will be viewed much differently than their female counterpart.

Buddha's Example #1:

Let's say you know a girl who fucked a hundred different dudes on the low you would think that bitch was a slut whose holes have been stretched a further distance than Stretch Armstrong and Inspector Gadget could reach...COMBINED!!!!!

Now let's say a dude you know fucked a hundred different dudes on the low.  I already know what some of ya'll would think.  You would think that dude was GAY AS FUCK!  Big deal.  You probably wouldn't think to label him a slut though.

Now let's say you know a guy who fucked a hundred chicks.  The fellas would label homeboy the man.  The "SLUT" label probably wouldn't be our first, or second, thought about dude.  Now with the ladies...THAT NIGGA IS A WHORE!!!!! LMAO.  Now he may be a dirty dick swinging slut to some of ya'll decent women who read my blogs, but you know someone who would probably think dude is someone to be fucked with due to the fact so many other chicks have fucked him.  They would justify it as him knowing how to fuck a chick good.

You'll be hard pressed to find a non-Muslim society who have a problem with their women showing their ass...

Now let's take public lewdness.  A woman can have her titties popped out in public to feed her child but a guy who can't find a public bathroom and decides to let go behind a bush is a pervert.  *Ed Lover Voice* C'MON SON!!!!

Buddha's Example #2:

I think I got caught up in this sort of mess.  I remember I was checking out this apartment.  Place was nice and it had a dishwasher and a fireplace.  I gave leasing the security deposit and first month's rent and signed the papers.  I was planning on moving in the bitch in a couple of weeks.  Right after I finished the paperwork and was on my way out I had to go bad as shit.  So I took myself behind the dumpster of the place and took a mean ass piss.  A few hours later I check my voicemail and its my future landlord telling me that somebody saw me and it was a violation of the leasing agreement.  The next day the money orders for the rent and deposit was in my mailbox!  Now if this was a woman with a crying baby and she popped one of her Ds in his mouth in broad daylight she would be viewed as Mother of the FUCKING Year!

Then we have moments of public affection.  Most people don't mind seeing two women, especially if they're both attractive, kissing in public.  For some reason, I don't think that female homosexuality is seen as homosexuality in some cases but that's for a future post.  Anyways most people, male or female, would be put off if they saw two dudes lip slobbing each other for the world to see.  Hey, that's their thing.  I'm not a basher but I don't want to see that shit.  Especially if I'm eating something like a banana, hot dog or popsicle.   That would be some disturbing mind fuck high or sober.

What these bitches have against grown, hairy balls???

Buddha's Example #3:

I fucking can't stand this Cougar trend.  All it is is a bunch of thirsty ass 30-40 something chicks looking for a young buck with some good dick and stamina.  I don't mind these Stellas getting their groove back, but when a muthafucka is trying to dip his dick in some Fountain of Youth people want to call Chris Hansen's Catch A Predator ASS.

Teachers fucking their students is a good example.  Let's say a female teacher fucked a 17 year old student most people would shrug it off.  The student clearly didn't mind getting some ass and he probably wasn't even a virgin.  The guy would probably get his props from his boys and older men.  Ladies,VICTIM would be the last thing you would probably call this student.

Now if a male teacher was smashing on a 17 year old female student then he's a sicko.  CHILD MOLESTER, PERVERT, SEXUAL PREDATOR...the list of labels this man would have would go on for days.  I mean even if the girl lost her virginity at 15, got gangbanged for the first time at 16 and sucked off the school's basketball team she would still be seen as off limits.  Not only because she's a student but also because in some social circles she's considered mentally unable to consent to a sexual relationship with a grown man.  BULLSHIT!!!!!  It's ok for boys her own age to slut her out but a man trying to catch a nut is robbing her of her "innocence"????

The term double standards to me is another way of saying separate but unequal.  It's one of many examples of our society's hypocrisy and at times confusion on a variety of matters and topics.  Having an opinion or thought on a subject that can be altered depending on the gender involved is the STANDARD for today and unfortunately tomorrow.

Got some questions:

1) What do you think is the worse double standard today involving gender?

2) Do you feel there are any legit double standards? If so, what are they?

3) Do you think to some extent double standards is a disguise for Sexism, Racism, Ageism, etc.?


Sidenote: Coming Soon...Double Standards: Black and White...

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